21 October, 2008

it is just a different kind of people..

i has been convinced myself that she messed up all the things was all because of her typically TYPE-A personality. She is a typically perfectionist.It did make me feel better at the moments as i started thinking at that way. But she was going too far with it.I m not criticizing but it was just kind of different kind of people, you know a person who have a different and weird personality that i just could hardly reach. Whats on her mind actually? You will never ever know.

Well, she really pissed me off at that time when we re going to pass up our assignment. What on earth she was going on? She was the one who grabbed all the work reluctantly and asked us better don't bother to do the assignment, and guess what, she started turning mad on us about the issue of individual contribution to the assignment. First of all, it was important to have harmony with each others when the thing was going as a group. In a group, four of us are expected to have our own opinion about doing the group work. But it wasn't going like that. She done everything without asking our opinion. Basically, she asked us some question which she had already got the answer in her mind.In the question for example about what was the best topic we had to write about. She totally ignored our opinion and just did what she had been started doing. It doesn't work like that. Group work supposed to be a GROUP work. We all deserved basic respect.

I didn't really want her to handle all the things. So i was keep asking whether she need some help. I felt better when i got some task although it isn't kind of harsh. Actually, i more rather to do more things and discuss with each other. I mean i rather to get a lower mark with an assignment which i did contribute more than an assignment that without my own opinion. You are not wrong, maybe you just wanted to speak the spade as a spade and get the mark u deserve to it. Well, if you really care about the individual contribution for the assignment, why didn't you distribute the work equally to all of us and judge our contribution individually to the lecturer instead of done everything without discuss with us and ratted all of us out.

I know that you were in a bad mood at that time, but u know what,
three of us may totally be lowered one grade. You can't imagine how serious will the influence to three of us.Well, this happening did make me upset since it was the first time to be a same group with her. There is no reason why other people should be the way you wants them to be anyway. I do learn something from that and maybe i can really read her a bit after all these happened.

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